Psychologists reveal: why post-90s are willing to post nude photos online
Such a group of women are active on the Internet. They are low-key and ordinary in their lives, but they are happy to post their sexy and naked photos on the Internet for comments. They are happy and do not pursue commercial returns.
Many people are curious and puzzled about their mentality of mapping, so we interviewed the “emotional baby” who posted more than 850,000 posts in the End of the World forum to share and analyze her story and psychology with experts.
At first impression, “Emotional Gorgeous Baby” was originally an “Emotional Gorgeous Baby” on the Internet of ordinary girls. In real life, it was called green tea. She was an ordinary girl. Friends who met for the first time described her as Wen Jing.The one that has never been noticeable.
But after finishing the tea business every day, she changed into an online vest and came to the “Tianya True Me” forum, which immediately became a “sexy baby” that made many people covet.
Green tea herself said-Some people say that her photos are very soiled, but in fact, she is more soiled in life, because even the clothes in the photos, she has never worn them in real life, so there is nothing to talk about in lifeSexy.
However, green tea’s online photos all highlight her “turbulent” tibia, and attracted followers. Therefore, green tea is not secret, she said that she is only showing her healthy body, showing the beauty of the female body, and commenting on others.She no longer cares.
Reporter: “A man can only peep at a woman if he doesn’t have it.” Reporter: Why did you put your exposed photos online?
Green tea: In fact, the first post was to post photos of visiting Taishan to the End of the World, one of which happened to be in the bathroom, and it turned out that I had the most attention. I thought it was fun and made more people know themselves.
After this time, I felt that I was actually pretty good. Many netizens said that my skirt was more beautiful, so when I started to post pictures, I gradually began to consciously highlight this feature.
Reporter: Some women posted naked photos of themselves on the Internet with active hype and asking for directions. What about you?
Green tea: I just show myself, manage my posts every night, and I can also send loneliness.
Of course, I also hope to get more compliments, because girls are beautiful after all.
At the same time, while you are still young and have the capital, leave a little memory of your youth.
Reporter: But did you satisfy the peeping desire of many men objectively?
Green tea: I think if there are no men in this world, women will not wear clothes, and those so-called ethics will also go to hell.
Women who men do n’t own can only peep. If all men have women’s breasts, there will be no hobby of peeping.
There are many ways of satisfying men’s peeping desire. More people have girlfriends or wives around, but when walking on the street, they can’t help looking at the sexy girls on the opposite side, which is the nature of men.
I’m a passing girl. Many people look at me. After reading, everyone is still busy.
”Zhang Ziyi has been scolded by others, I’m psychologically balanced.” Reporter: After the stickers are posted, there are many people who follow, but the quality of these people is uneven, and some are even vulgar. Does it affect your mentality?
Green tea: The idea was very simple at first. I did n’t experience such bad words in my life. My mood changed a lot. Then I realized that my body was really not very good. Then I tried to lose weight. Then I took a better photo. Later everyoneSeeing my changes, I support a little more understanding.
I also keep changing my mind, thinking about how much Zhang Ziyi has been scolded, and my psychology is balanced.
After a long time in the horizon, my ability to resist stress is also strong. It is most important to take everything seriously, acknowledge your ordinaryness, and strive to make yourself better.
Reporter: You are still single now, do you worry that your boyfriend will not like you to post pictures like this in the future?
Green tea: I will tell him, if he accepts, continue, if not, I will not force.
The attitude of a person is the most important. No matter what is wrong, as long as the courage to bear the truth is the most important, not to mention I have not done anything wrong.
The star dream of women in the spectator socket Zhang Jiecheng, 29 years old, male, website editor. I think that women have star dreams. Some people have no way to realize their star dreams in real life. I hope to realize it through the Internet.This is why the texture forum is very hot.
But of course it is possible to show, and nakedness is not really necessary, because blindly cater to the tastes of some people, in fact, it is more profane language, and it is actually just pollution to one’s mind.
The hunting mentality of men Chen Xiaoyu, 22 years old, female, publishing company employee Many men are looking for those “colors” and tastes like flies on the Internet. They use words to encourage women to be naked. This stingy practice gives a lot ofThe girl created the illusion that “I am very popular with men”, letting them immerse themselves in those vain and sweet words and tirelessly stick out their bodies, but in fact, they just became a tool for some men to seduce.
Ordinary people are not sexy?
Orange, 25 years old, female, freelancer. You just casually look at the well-known fashion magazines on the newsstand. Do the models in them not be exposed?
Is it enough to pay for the sexiness of the model, but not ordinary people like us?
In fact, the display of any commercial factors on the Internet is the purest, and there is no trading element at all.
Experts analyze the consolidation of oral desire and desire for attention and roots. Source: Infant Desire, Satisfaction and Satisfaction, Lu Yue, Director of the New Hope Hotline Center of Marriage and Family, National Psychological Counselor. Many girls put themselves very sexy, even some naked photosOn the Internet, this is actually a subconscious courtship behavior. An improper analogy is that the female monkey’s butt becomes red during estrus, and they often show off their butt.
The subtext of these photos is: Look, how beautiful I am, come and love me.
At the same time, most of these women are consolidating in the term of cravings described in psychology: women are obsessed with seeking the attention of others, as long as it is attention, whether it is good or bad.
Freud once concluded that the main way for babies under one year old to obtain various desires is through the mouth (that is, sucking, eating, drinking, and eating hands, etc.), so this period of babies through one year to satisfy desires through mouthCalled the “oral period”.
Failure to satisfy their desires will have some life-long effects on the baby, some of which are more feasible and may even get too much necessary attention.
Therefore, people who have consolidated during the orgasm period are generally more greedy. Their credo in life is attention = love.Or that attention is the way to get love.
The way to get attention is through sexual pleasing, and posting naked photos on the Internet should be considered a sexual pleasing.
China is currently in a social stage of appetite, which is also an important reason why so many “Internet nudity” will occur.
Link Analysis Oral Consolidation: The psychoanalytic school divides an individual’s growth experience into several periods, including the oral, anal, and sexual bud periods.
Before the age of one, a person is in the “oral period”. At this time, the child is in a state of complete self-reliance, and basically has no ability to move. The mouth is the center of his life and interest.
If a child enters the “first period of resistance” after one year of age, and the parents depress the child’s autonomous behavior too much, the child will return to the “oral period” because they are afraid to be criticized and they dare not have their own thoughts and intentionThis effect will continue throughout their lives. Psychoanalysis calls this phenomenon “the consolidation of the orbit.”
This kind of people will have some manifestations, although they are already adults, they still have the psychology of children.
Sources of unreliable mediocrity: Conformity, unwillingness to mediocrity, fear of age Song Yumei, the phenomenon that psychological counseling experts of the Listening (Beijing) Counseling Center posted their photos on the InternetFor some people, this is a kind of herd mentality. In fact, they don’t know what they need in their hearts. They don’t feel what they have gained from this action. They just follow some people around them ignorantly, butTheir imitators are likely to have their own unique purpose-some kind of self-hype.
For other people, this also shows that many people are not willing to be mediocre in real life. Many people are not the focus of the circle of friends in real life, not the one who holds the moon, so they often choose to go online.A relatively virtual form to get the feeling that can’t be obtained in real life, and the network form can satisfy their self-protection psychology.
In addition, with the change of social consciousness and the relaxation of thought restraints, more women have realized the beauty of women’s bodies. At the same time, they have paid more attention to the display and sharing of their beauty, and can gain a kind of confidence from it.
Another part of women is because of a fear of “loss”. They are not ready for the aging of life and the change of age and appearance, so many people hope to grasp the tail of youth and leave some thoughts for themselves.